Marshall & Shari’s Tribeca Wedding: A Joyful Union of Traditions

I often have the privilege of officiating a wedding that perfectly reflects a couple’s love, heritage, values, and the families who shaped them. Marshall and Shari’s wedding at Tribeca 360 in New York City was exactly that—an elegant and deeply personal interfaith ceremony that honored both their unique identities and the shared life they are building together.

A Rooftop Celebration with a View

Set against sweeping views of the Manhattan skyline, Tribeca 360 offered the perfect canvas for Marshall and Shari’s wedding. Light, warmth, and the buzz of anticipation filled the space as friends and family gathered to celebrate this meaningful milestone.

Walking Toward the Future, Led by Music and Love

An immediate sense of beauty and intimacy filled the air as the ceremony began. Shari’s sister played a soft, soulful flute melody as the couple walked down the aisle—a deeply personal touch that set the tone for the rest of the ceremony. It was a moment of calm joy, marking the beginning of a journey filled with shared dreams and respect for each other’s roots.

Blending Traditions: A Thoughtful Interfaith Ceremony

Shari is Jewish, while Marshall comes from a Christian background; together, they were intentional in honoring both faiths in a way that felt harmonious and heartfelt. Jewish rituals were seamlessly entwined with Christian readings to create a ceremony that was inclusive and full of meaning.

Marshall’s parents offered a moving reading from the Christian tradition; their words a loving expression of support for their son and new daughter-in-law. Moments later, Shari read a brief love poem in Hebrew—an homage to the language of her childhood and the traditions she holds dear.

Symbols of Legacy and Love

One of the most touching elements of the ceremony was the subtle yet profound remembrance of family members who had passed. Rather than a single moment of remembrance, Marshall and Shari wove their memory throughout the ceremony by using meaningful ritual items that belonged to them. For example, they drank from a kiddush cup that was passed down from Shari’s grandfather, Samuel, for whom she was named. In doing so, they honored the love and legacy that shaped their lives and brought them to this day.

Vows from the Heart

When it came time for their vows, Marshall and Shari chose to write their own. Their words were full of tenderness, humor, and deep understanding, as they made a promise not just to love each other but also to support, grow, and dream together. It was clear that these two had built something strong and rare.

A Mezuzah Made from a Moment

As the ceremony came to a close, Marshall broke the glass—a joyful Jewish tradition that reminds us of both the fragility and resilience of life and love. Their personal twist on this ritual made it even more special: the broken glass will be turned into a mezuzah for their home, a daily reminder of this sacred moment.

A Celebration of Unity

Marshall and Shari’s wedding was more than a ceremony; it was a tribute to the idea that love doesn’t ask us to choose between our histories—it asks us to embrace them, to celebrate them, and to move forward together with open hearts. It was an honor to stand beside them as they said “I do” under the glowing city lights and the warm embrace of their families.

Mazel tov and congratulations to Marshall and Shari! May your marriage continue to be a beautiful testament to the harmony possible when two cultures come together with open hearts and mutual respect.