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When a loved one passes away, the world can often feel upside-down; sometimes static and sometimes moving too quickly. In these moments, Jewish ritual offers us a framework—a way of walking through the valley of loss step by step, guided by tradition, community, and memory. This guide is intended to be both a lantern and a checklist, helping you feel less alone as you make decisions about funerals, unveilings, and the days in between.

Jewish weddings are rich with tradition, and when two people stand beneath the chuppah, they step into an ancient narrative that continues to evolve through its present-day participants. For LGBTQ+ couples, that story should be told with the authenticity, joy, and dignity afforded to every person in the tribe. Jewish weddings are full of ancient beauty, but many rituals evolved in a gendered world where “bride” and “groom” were the only characters on the stage.

Spiritual counseling combines psychological insights with spiritual guidance, helping you align your strengths and values while addressing your struggles and hopes.

When planning a Jewish ceremony, understanding the order and significance of each element is crucial. These ceremonies are not simply a list of prayers or blessings to check off of a program. Instead, they represent a journey, weaving an arc that stretches from the past, through the present, into the future. This journey is part of what we call in Hebrew “hashalshelet ha-kabbalah”, the chain of tradition.

A baby naming is more than just a ceremony; it's a welcome and a moment when a new soul is folded into the fabric of family, community, and tradition. Whether your baby is just a few weeks old or already walking, this is your chance to formally welcome your child into the covenant of the Jewish people, and give your child a name to use in that community that carries meaning, history, and hope. These are the questions I walk through with families when we begin this sacred pla

So, you're planning a co-officiated wedding. First of all, mazel tov! Whether you're an interfaith cultural, intercultural, or simply hoping to bring together two traditions in a meaningful way, you're already choosing a path of intentionality, creativity, and love. Co-officiated weddings can get a little complex. It’s not just about logistics; it’s about meaning, representation, inclusion, and heart. There’s no one right way to do this, but there is your way. And I’m here t

After many years of helping couples to get it just right, I've learned that interfaith weddings are about more than just two people coming together. They’re about two families, two traditions, and two sets of memories merging to build a new shared future. Choosing which rituals to include is one of the most important (and most rewarding) parts of this journey.

Every so often I have the honor of standing with a family on a day that feels like it’s been waiting in their hearts for generations. Jonny’s baby naming ceremony in Paramus, New Jersey was one of those days. From the moment I arrived, I could tell that this wasn’t just an ordinary celebration, but one filled with memory, hope, and deep love.

Baby namings aren’t simply about giving a child a Hebrew name—they’re about introducing the child to their community, honoring the past, and planting seeds for the future. It’s that first moment when we say to a new little soul, “You belong here, and you’re part of something bigger.”

Officiating Stella’s Bat Mitzvah in Woodcliff Lake, NJ was one of those events that stays with you, where the significance of the moment transcended the occasion itself.. That day, I had the honor of standing beside a young woman who held a quiet confidence and a clear sense of self and purpose.

When Jordan and Julia asked me to officiate their wedding, I was truly honored. Their wedding, held in Mystic, Connecticut, right on the water, was everything you’d hope a summer celebration would be: relaxed, joyful, and full of love.

Some families leave a lasting emotional imprint on my heart as an officiant. Josh and Cassie are one of those families. I had the honor of officiating their wedding—a moment of joy that kicked off a beautiful journey together. Since then, I’ve watched their family grow, and despite the physical distance, I’ve been incredibly grateful to remain a part of their life’s milestones. Most recently, I had the privilege of leading a virtual baby naming ceremony for their newest bles

Anna and Scott’s B Mitzvah celebration was a memorable day filled with joy, meaning, and deep connection, leaving a lasting impression long after the final blessing was spoken. As the officiant, and also the person who had the honor of tutoring these extraordinary twins, I had a front-row seat to something truly special.

Co-officiating Jenna and Max’s wedding alongside Father Walker—Jenna’s childhood priest—was an experience I will treasure forever. Held at the majestic Plaza Hotel in New York City, their wedding was more than just a union of two people; it was a beautiful blending of two faiths, two families, and a heartfelt commitment to honoring one another’s traditions. The joy, depth, and symbolism present in the carefully chosen rituals, decorations, and personal touches made this a tru

Gathered in a charming restaurant in the heart of Greenwich, Connecticut, we marked a moment that was both ancient and new—welcoming a beautiful little girl into the covenant of the Jewish people with a baby naming ceremony.

One of the things I treasure most about officiating Jewish weddings is how many ways there are to invite love and support into the ceremony.

Marshall and Shari’s wedding at Tribeca 360 in New York City was an elegant and deeply personal interfaith ceremony.

Dara’s baby naming at Old Westbury Country Club was a beautiful gathering filled with love, heritage, and connection.

Jennifer and Robert’s Jewish wedding in Englewood, New Jersey was a reflection of who they are as a couple and the community around them.

I had the honor of welcoming baby Abraham into the Jewish community. It was an intimate and heartfelt ceremony.